When you think of the New Year, you probably think of resolutions– beacons of hope meant to inspire self-improvement. From the desire to master a skill to learning something completely new, resolutions are good ways to make personal growth easier. But, what happens when this “easiness” fades?
We’re all striving to better ourselves, both consciously and subconsciously. After all, self-improvement is part of the human experience– no one’s born perfect. But part of this beautiful, natural imperfection is learning how to manage the pressure of perfection with genuine growth. Focus on setting intrinsic goals over immediate changes. Ask yourself: what is something you truly want to improve? Would you like to read for an hour instead of twenty minutes? Or perhaps you believe walking twice a day would benefit you more than your usual once-a-week routine? Challenge yourself to add these resolutions to your routine without disrupting your natural lifestyle. Take breaks from reading, allow your mind to rest when needed. Walk only when the weather is at its finest, or when you have the perfect playlist to enjoy. Our minds strive off of subconscious routines– allow yourself to appreciate it without pressure.
Now, I ask you this: how do you think you can improve or create your resolutions to allow yourself to truly improve? The answer might not be clear now, but part of this self-improvement is self-discovery. Discover your strengths, recognize your weaknesses– and, most importantly, uncover a way to fruitfully fulfill your resolutions without the pressure, one step at a time.